Before you can deal with being breadcrumbed, you need to realize that you are being breadcrumbed. There are clear signs when someone is just stringing you along. You just need to be confident enough and love yourself enough to see them.
SIGNS YOU ARE BEING BREADCRUMBED
Short texts – When someone is really interested in you they make an effort. If they are being lazy in the beginning stages and can’t even make an effort when texting you that is a red flag. Now sometimes people are really just busy, but if it is a continual thing, there is a problem.
You have been messaging for weeks but haven’t met IRL – You have been texting for weeks but they haven’t made an effort to actually meet. While the suspense might heighten your desire, it says something about that person. It also tells you that you are not a priority.
Something always comes up – You finally make plans to meet but they can’t make it because something came up. Now this is real life and things do come up. But if this happens more than once, major red flag.
Sexting – If all they want to do is sext. Or, if they want to sext before you even meet. RED FLAG! Don’t get me wrong I’ve got nothing against sexting, but it is usually clear when that is all someone wants.
Being breadcrumbed sucks! No one enjoys being used and/or their emotions played with. The best thing to do is to watch out for the signs and to get out early. Not all attention is good attention. Let the other person know you are too good for their games.
Stay tuned for How To Handle Being Breadcrumbed. Also, check out Breadcrumbing Because Ghosting Wasn’t Bad Enough. http://www.fabulouslysingle.life/breadcrumbing-because-ghosting-wasnt-bad-enough/
Until next time…..